Sahih al-Bukhari 3978, 3979

It is related from Hisham's father, "It was mentioned in the presence of 'A'isha that Ibn 'Umar traced this to the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, 'The dead person is punished in his grave on account of the weeping of his family.' She said, 'Ibn 'Umar, may Allah have mercy on him, forgot. The Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "He is punished for his wrong actions and sins while his family are weeping over him then."' She said, 'This is like what the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said when he stood over the well which contained the idolaters slain at Badr and said to them, "They hear what I say." He said, "Now they know that what I used to tell them is the truth."' Then she recited, 'You will not make dead men hear' (30:52) and 'You cannot make those in the grave hear.' (35:22) She said, 'That is when they take their seats in the Fire.'"