Sahih al-Bukhari 5079

It is related that Jabir ibn 'Abdullah said, "While we were returning from an expedition with the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, I started to urge on my camel which was slow. A rider caught up to me from behind and poked my camel with a speak he had. My camel started to move like the best camel you could see. It was the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, who then asked, 'What makes you hurry?' I said, 'I am newly married.' He asked, 'A virgin or a woman who was married previously?' I replied, 'A woman who was married previously.' He asked, 'Why not a virgin whom you could play with and who could play with you?' When we were about to enter Madina, he said, 'Wait so that you enter at night (i.e. the evening) so that a woman with untidy hair can comb her hair and one whose husband has been absent can shave her pubic hair.'"