Sahih al-Bukhari 5247

It is related that Jabir ibn 'Abdullah said, "We were with the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, on an expedition. When we were returning and were close to Madina, I was trying to hurry on a slow camel. A rider caught up to me from behind and pricked my camel with a spear he had. Then my camel moved as if it was the best camel you have seen. I turned and it was the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace. I said, 'Messenger of Allah, I am newly married.' 'You have got married?' he said. 'Yes,' I replied. He asked, 'A virgin or a woman previously married' I replied, A woman previously married.' He said, 'Why not a virgin with whom you could play and she could play with you?' When we arrived, we were going to enter and he said, 'Delay until you enter in the evening so that dishevelled women can comb their hair and the woman whose husband has been absent can shave her pubes.'"